We Want to Know....

What were you for Halloween?

If you had a kick ass costume, let us know!

We Want to Know....

Do you find Russell Brand attractive?
Posted by: B 

So I was talking to one of my dear friends, G, on Blackberry Messenger when Russell Brand came up as a topic of conversation.

G lives in Italy and has ties to England.   She was telling me that a lot of women in the UK find Russell Brand attractive but is he as popular with the ladies in the US??

You decide.

Photo courtesy of nydailynews.com

Let us know if you think Russell Brand is attractive, sexy, etc.

Happy Halloween

Trick or Treat?

We hope you have a faboosh Halloween that was filled with plenty of good times. 

If you celebrated Friday and/or Saturday night we hope you had a fun and safe time.

xoxo
B & L

Dating101

Jumping Back into the Dating Pool
Posted by: B

WOW it's been a while but there's no better way to start a new adventure than to do a new blog post!

I have recently decided to jump back into the dating pool.  When I brought up this decision to a couple of my friends there seemed to be 4 common pieces of advice given to me.  So, I thought I would share those pearls of wisdom with all of you!

1. You have to be ready.  

You can't listen to everyone else telling you to get out there and date someone, you have to go at your pace.  If that means waiting several months, then wait several months.  During that time work on yourself and get into a place you need to be in order to start dating again.

But be cautious about the length of time you do this.  Don't rush it but be realistic.

2. You have to put yourself out there.  

It might be scary at first but after a couple times you start to get the feel for it.  If you are really nervous about this you should try striking up a random conservation with a stranger.  Be that person in line that turns to the person next to you and ask a random question about something they are purchasing.  Work your way up to putting yourself out there with someone you might be interested in.

3. Don't be afraid to to take risks 

This goes hand and hand with number 2.  You have to be ready in order to take that risk.  Sometimes your risk won't be as successful as you may wish it to be but what's the worse that can happen?  Answer: the other person isn't that into you.  Blow to the ego?  Maybe, if you let it.  You have to realize that not everyone is going to be into you and that maybe a guy/girl you really like just isn't feeling you.  But that's normal.  So, don't look at the negative outcomes from the risks you take, instead look at the positive such as you tried or you found out something new about yourself.

4. Have fun. 

Learning about someone new is exciting.  You get all those giddy feelings again.  All of you should know exactly what I mean.  You smile when the guy you hope is into you sends you a text asking you out or after a great date you get a phone call telling you how much fun it was.  Live in the moment and enjoy every minute.

While these may seem to common sense it's good to refresh your memory sometimes.

Thirsty Thursday

A Very Berry Surprise 

When you want to have a night in but still want a delicious drink to sip try A Very Berry Surprise.

Ingredients:

• 2 Ounces of Baja Rosa Strawberry Cream Liqueur 
• 1/2 Ounce of 99 Blackberries Blackberry Schnapps 
• 1/2 Ounce of Black Haus Blackberry Schnapps 
• 1 Ounce of DeKuyper Raspberry Pucker Schnapps
• 1 Cup of Ice 
• 1 Cup of Black Cherry Ice Cream

Combine all the ingredients in a blender.  Blend.  Pour into a margarita glass.  Garnish with your choice of cherries, raspberries, or strawberries.


Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Thirsty Thursday

Autumn Sunrise 

 Happy First Day of Fall!!

Ingredients:

• 3 Ounces of Smirnoff Citrus Vodka 
• 1 Ounce of Pomegranate Liqueur
• 1/2 Ounce of Pear Liqueur

Combine all the ingredients in a shaker with ice.  Shake. Pour into a glass.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Thirsty Thursday

Lunch Box

With Labor Day in the past and the third week of classes under way it's probably about time we admit it's fall and school is back in session.

Ingredients:

• 3/4 Bottle of Beer
• 1 Shot of Amaretto Almond Liqueur 
• 1 Ounce of Orange Juice

Fill most of a glass with beer.  Make sure you don't fill it to the top.  Add orange juice.  Finally, add the shot of Amaretto Almond Liqueur.  

Please note, while this drink might not sound like the tastiest one we've had on Counsel Confidential, it did score a 9.8 out of 10 based on 114 votes on drinksmixer.com.  So, if you are feeling a little daring then take a chance and test it out.

Enjoy. 

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Thirsty Thursday

Classy Bitch

With school back in session, you want to be known as classy, not trashy. As a little reminder to stay classy and fabulous, while getting your drink on, try a Classy Bitch.

Ingredients:

• 3/4 Ounce of Gin
  
• 3/4 Ounce of Vodka
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Triple Sec
• 1/2 Ounce of Rose's Lime Juice
  
• 5 1/2 Ounces of Tonic Water

Combine the gin, vodka, triple sec and lime juice into a glass filled with ice. Stir. Add the tonic water. Garnish with a lime wedge.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Classroom Do's and Don'ts

Posted by: L

Well, we are officially into the second week of classes! What better way off to start off your semesters with a "Classroom Don't" straight from the halls of Your University.

Ok, ladies this one is for you:

Don't show up to class wearing a backless halter dress and no brassier and four inch heels.

(Dramatic pause for a moment to let all you Readers take that in. Yes, said "outfit" was witnessed by L.)

Don't nix any and all boobie support, because yes, when you go to put your bag on your shoulders your dress will creep out of place and we very well be beamed with Nipplegate 2.0.

(Need I remind you that grading is anonymous? You are not helping your GPA by dressing like a floozie.)

Yes, the temperatures are creeping back up to beach weather for the weekend. BUT, you need to remember that you are in a professional setting and anything revealing or hoochie-esque should be saved for the weekend and your own time. You're here to get a J.D. (not your M.R.S.) and it is more likely than not that you will eventually be working with your peers or encounter your peers later on in your career-- you don't want to be known as "that girl."

Don't feel like you need to rule out all sundresses, though (she types as she sits wearing her J.Crew Jessie dress, with a coral Jackie cardigan by her side, you know, incase there's a chill in the classroom).

Do keep your selections modest and cover up your thighs and cleavage. (Trendy can be modest.)

Have any of you seen first week classic dressing Don'ts?

Share in the comments!

Thirsty Thursday

Country Time

Country Fest is this Saturday!!! So bottoms up all you country lovers.

Ingredients:

• 1 Ounce Absolut Citron Vodka
• 1 Ounce Vodka
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Raspberry Schnapps
• 1 Splash of Sprite
  
• 2 Lemon Wedges

Fill a cocktail shaker half way with ice. Combine vodkas, lemon juice, and raspberry schnapps in the cocktail shaker. Shake. Strain into a shot glass. Splash sprite.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Frugal is the New Black

Posted by: B

For the past two months I have been planning on purchasing some pants for work. Yes, you read correctly, I have been planning this for two months. I have been quite the busy B running around, taking weekend trips, celebrating special occasions, to find extra time to go pants shopping has been near impossible.

Today I managed to have an hour of free time. After debating for 15 minutes about whether or not I should spend that free hour pants shopping instead of relaxing, I decided to drive myself to New York & Company to get 1 pair of pants. As I pulled into the parking lot the dread of pants shopping vanished.

New York & Company is currently having their semi-annual pant and jean event. Buy one pair of pants, get the second one free!

What. A pleasant surprise.

If you don't need pants for work, don't fret you can still take advantage of this sale. You can get two jeans or mix and match any pair of pants and jeans.

Here is a great situation to indulge.

Water Cooler

Posted by: L

I've had this photo saved on my phone for a while (ok, since March!) and am finally getting around to sharing.

I snapped this gem inside our Company's break room refrigerator.

Yes, that is a gallon of milk with date, time, and fill-marks indicating the precise milk status at the last use.

What's worse is that I actually had the pleasure or witnessing the labeling going down. A story for another day, folks.

Thirsty Thursday

Sweet & Sinful

Law school starts in less than 2 weeks. Translation: experience as much fun as possible. Sweet & Sinful will help turn those good nights into classics.

Ingredients:

• 1 1/4 Ounces of Stoli Razberi Vodka
• 3/4 Ounce of DeKuyper Peachtree Schnapps
• 1/2 Ounce of Cranberry-Raspberry Juice
• 1/2 Teaspoon of Grenadine Syrup
  

While you are chilling a cocktail glass, combine the Stoli Razberi Vodka, DeKuyper Peachtree Schnapps, and cranberry juice in a pint glass. Pour the ice out of the cocktail glass. Strain the cocktail into the glass. Lace with grenadine.

If you are feeling creative, rim the cocktail glass in colored sugar.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

In the News

Posted by: L

I heard about this yesterday morning on the radio and wanted to share: A housekeeper brought suit against her employer after she was fired for taking longer than eight weeks of maternity leave. I know this blog receives a vast amount of women readers (guys we love you, too!), so I think it is a relevant topic. Please feel free to weigh in on your opinions and thoughts in the comments. A link to the article is provided, too.

The Massachusetts Supreme Court ruled, 4-3, that women are entitled to eight weeks of unpaid maternity leave under the Massachusetts Maternity Leave Act without fear of losing their jobs; however, a longer leave can put their jobs at risk.

From the Boston Globe, "The ruling is limited to women whose maternity leave falls under state law, typically those who work at smaller companies but with at least six employees. People who work for employers with 50 or more employees are covered by the federal Family and Medical Leave Act of 1993, which provides up to 12 weeks of unpaid leave and job protection. The ruling does not affect the federal protections."

So, what do you think? The case had a number of issues including malpractice and recovery based on the contract the employee had with her employer, but the outcome still clarifies the MA Act.

Eight weeks-- is it a fair amount of time? What do you ladies without children think, too? Guys, we'd love to hear from you, too!

The ruling is definitely something to consider when looking into applying to different sized law firms, too.

Water Cooler

Posted by: L

I thought this little ditty might cheer up some of you post-Grads currently job searching. You know, in between trying to compose cover letters, whining to your friends on g-chat about how you hate being unemployed, and aggressively searching the internet for YouTube videos and browsing the GoodBook.

From the best of Craigslist, I'm re-posting The Top 10 Law Firm Interview Questions here for your enjoyment (all while hoping there is no copyright violation or some related shit that I have yet to learn about).

Enjoy!

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One of the worst experiences in law school has been the ritual of submitting applications for summer employment and then going through a series of 20-minute screening interviews that would put a marine drill sergeant to shame when it comes to humiliating and dehumanizing you. Here are my top-ten (least) favorite questions, and how I actually answered them as opposed to how I would have liked to answer them.

1. Why are you interested in this firm?

What I said: Your firm handled (insert name of case I read on their website) which I found to be exciting because it was just like another case I was reading in this class I got an A in. I've also asked some (read: none) upper class-men about your office and they said it's a great work environment.

What I thought: I looked through your attorney roster and saw that you hire people who do not appear to have any honors and come from bad law schools. That made me think that I have a chance to work here.

2. Why did you go to law school?

What I said: I went to law school because I want to be able to make a difference. Legal work allows me to be competitive and to work for justice, both of which are important things in my life.

What I thought: That's a good question, and I ask myself it daily. I'd have to say the answer is, stupidity.

3. Do you think your grades are an accurate reflection of the kind of work you will do as an attorney?

What I said: Law school has been a challenge, and I think my grades reflect that. More important than my grades, which by the way have steadily improved over my academic career, is my dedication to the work I do. My performance during my summer jobs is the best indicator of how I will work, and you will find that my previous employers were all pleased with me (or at least forgot who I am and so will not remember the fuck ups).

What I thought: My grades are absolutely a good reflection of how I will work. I will put in the minimum amount of effort needed to not get fired, and I will approach my job with contempt and disinterest.

4. What would you say is your greatest weakness?

What I said: My greatest weakness is that I get too personally involved with my work. For instance, when I am working on trial prep, and then the case settles favorably, I feel as though it should have gone to trial anyway, despite knowing that the settlement is what's best for our firm and our client.

What I thought: Pussy. If there are any females in your office, you can be certain I will work twice as hard to get into their pants as I will to make my billables. And yes, since you require us to bill 1,900 hours, that means I will be sexually harassing my co-workers 3,800 hours a year.

5. Tell us about a recent mistake that you have made.

What I said: I accidentally misfiled a case at work that was set to go to trial the next week. As soon as I realized this, I alerted my supervisor and disaster was averted.

What I thought: An even bigger mistake I've made has been wasting 20 minutes of my life in this interview instead of taking a dump, that would have been much more satisfying and productive.

6. What do you do for fun?

What I said: I enjoy jogging, skydiving, and traveling to exotic countries.

What I thought: When I really want to have fun, I grab my "Big Butt Sluts # 24" DVD, a bottle of Bourbon, and a bottle of lube. By the end of the night, both bottles are empty, and my room smells like jizz and puke.

7. Tell us about your style of leadership.

What I said: I lead by taking the initiative and working proactively with my peers to come up with solutions.

What I thought: I lead by playing "The Eye of the Tiger" on a boombox while pounding my fist on the table and shouting insults. (It works, I've done it)

8. If you don't get hired by this firm, what will you do?

What I said: I will analyze what I could have done better during the interview and take that knowledge with me into my next interview with [rival firm name].

What I thought: I will breath a sigh of relief that I won't be working for an asshole like you. Or I will stalk you and slit your throat. I haven't decided yet.

9. Do you have any questions for us?

What I said: Will I have a key so that I can come in and work on the weekends?

What I thought: Will I have a key so that I can come in and have sex with my girl friend on my desk on the weekends?

10. We value creativity among our associates. With that in mind, what kind of plant would you be, and why?

What I said: I would be a tree, because they are tall, strong, and live a long life.

What I thought: I would be a tree, so that I could fall on you and kill you


Absolutley hilarious! And, pretty spot on. I would add an Orbitz^TM like smile, of course at the end. Reeling them in. Hook, line, and sinker.

Classroom Do's and Don'ts: MPRE Edition

Posted by: L

The MPRE is over! At least, for now. Scores will be available in (5) weeks, so I will be ignoring anything related to it until then.

Some overall thoughts of which really surprised me:

• The number of individuals that failed to realize that if your room number was "201" that you would be on the second floor of the building, not the first.
• The frequency at which this occurred.
• How many individuals, still, waited in the wrong line and went into the wrong classroom.
• How many individuals waited until the instructions were completed (2) times and still couldn't follow them.
• No matter how prepared you are, it's still a crapshoot in terms of your score. How do they calculate that requisite "85" for MA, anyways?

On the plus side, I still have +/- (5) times to take it again, just in case. Phew.

So, after this experience, some Classroom Do's and Don'ts:

Do:

• Complete Barbri practice exams (duh.). There were a few similar questions on the real exam as the practice ones. After completing those, I knew for certain I was getting the right answer. (Now just hope this helps enough for the 85!)
• Read the official instructions, on what is and isn't allowed in the testing room, because yes, you will have to remove your hat, your celli will be confiscated, and you will have to spit out your gum.
• Scope out the building if you're unsure of what your Admission Ticket means by "Room 100" or "Room 200". Helpful hint: The first number will likely be the floor of the building you are on. Find your nearest staircase and get marching up it.

Don't:

• Be "that" guy/girl. Or I (or someone like me) will talk about you loudly to my neighbor.

Good luck to everyone that took it this Friday!

Did anyone have similar thoughts or experiences? What did you think??

Frugal is the New Black

Posted by: L

I received a few e-mails after the post on Ann Taylor LOFT's sale-- the code I provided was for online shopping only.

So, as you requested: click here for a coupon for 30% off your in-store purchases, valid from now until Sunday, August 8, 2010.

Happy Shopping!

Thirsty Thursday

South African Smoothie

One word to describe this drink: Delicious.

Ingredients:

• 1 1/2 Ounces of Amarula Cream Liqueur
• 1 Small Banana
  
• Chocolate Ice Cream
  

Combine all ingredients into a blender. Blend on high power till smooth. Pour into a glass. Garnish with a cherry and chocolate shavings.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

In the News

Posted by: L

The internetz are all a-buzz with Proposition 8 being overturned in California -- a major victory for all Gay Rights Activists.

Read about it here:

• Huffington Post
• LA Times
• NY Times

Here's to Equal Protection!

Hot Mess

Posted by: L

How about a mid-afternoon P O P Q U I Z, Readers?

L's MPRE Barbri book is wet (and/or has dried wet spots) for which of the following reason(s)?

A: Because she drooled on it while passing out on it in the library.

B. Because she hosed herself off while trying to sunbathe/study multi-task and put her book on her wet bathing suit.

C. Because she just put it in some condensation left over on the kitchen table from a frosty Diet Mountain Dew.

D. All of the above.

Well, if you answered D, you are correct! ((Audience cheers.))

Studying for this exam is as about as exciting as being in a vegetative state, but for those of you non-lawyers or non-law school peers, it's an exam you need to pass before you can sit for the Bar Exam. Yipee. And, in usual L - Fashion, I am a considerable Hot Mess!

I'm seriously thinking of marketing these materials to insomniacs. Give the makers of Ambien a run for their money!

Frugal is the New Black

Posted by: L

This one is time sensitive and items are selling out quick-- there is a Lilly Pulitzer boutique on Rue La La right now!

I managed to scoop up this "Cedar" Printed Tank:

{Navy, Green, and Pink? Yes, please!}

Hurry, though and bring out your inner WASP!

There's still cute mugs, stationery sets, sunglasses and tops left!

Need an invite code? Sign up here!

Frugal is the New Black

Posted by: L

Stock up on some classic and trendy pieces that can take you from work to play at Ann Taylor LOFT!

From now until August 8, get 30% off every purchase and FREE SHIPPING for every order over $100 when you use the offer code FRIENDS.

Why does L love the Loft for Counsel Confidential's readers?

Regardless of what profession you are in, you can find dressy and casual pieces to mix and match that will easily incorporate into your professional wardrobe. It is a perfect place for every girl, from a teacher to a corporate attorney (when not in court!), to at least try. They offer a wide range of sizes (regular and petites!), and their affordable prices allow you to indulge in q u a n t i t y without emptying your wallet!

Now is the perfect time to start stocking up on the new fall colors, like these below:

{Twisted Neck Exposed Back Zip - Moss Green - $49.50}

{Belted Twill Jacket - Frosted Taupe - $69.50}

{Tab Sleeve Ruffle Top - Frosted Taupe - $44.50}

{Pima Cotton Twisted Trim Sweater - Deep Tropical Rose - $39.50}

{all images via AnnTaylorLOFT.com}

Don't forget to launch your order through Ebates and receive an additional 3% back! Don't have Ebates? Sign up here!

Loves It, Hates It

Posted by: L

Weekend Wear

Loves it!

Ok, Readers.

This has been on my mind for a while now (ok, months!). My inner high school girl with a lust for all things Abercrombie and Fitch is excited, but my hips/ass/thighs are hesitant.

Does anyone else remember rocking the army green A&F cargos with the pull strings? Maybe worn with DocMartens and a logoed A&F long sleeved shirt or sweater. Anyone? Well... they've gone and gotten themselves a brand-spankin-new adult look now. Introducing:

Cargo pants with skinny legs.

I'm sure you have all by now seen the J Brand Houlihans (if you haven't you're living under a rock and I extend no sympathy for you!). Especially when they've been seen on celebrities from as early as February, such as:

{Rihanna - Image via denimology.com}

{Khloe Kardashian - Image via denimblog.com}

{Gwen Stefani and Cheryl Cole - Images via fabsugar.co.uk}

I love when the cargo pants are dressed up with heels (minus Gwen who is on Mommy-Duty), and I especially love the leopard print that Rihanna and Khloe's stylists chose. (And, lets face it, I think anything that Cheryl Cole does is genius. Love her.)

With Labor Day here before we know it and as the temperatures will start to drop, it will be time to tuck away the skirts and sundresses and reach for pants (bleh). How would the cargo pants be whilst studying for hours in the library?

Oh, look here, I have some extra page flags tucked right here in my side pocket! Extra highlighter? Ya! You bet! Oh, just kidding, it's extra lip gloss! heh heh

They sold out real quick when they first came out early this year, and now the price has gone up just a bit ($228-$230).

So far, I love it! My only reservations are the pockets on the widest part of a girl's hips. So a changing room session is definitely in order. Of course with all skinny pants and jeans there should never, ever be bagging/sagging in the butt, thighs, or knees. (So be careful with the spandex count in the pair you choose if you purchase another brand! Too much spandex = extra sagging).

Bloomies, via the link above, has four colors so far, too:

• Black (Hate!)
• Sharkskin
• Vintage Navy
• Olive (Love!)

While Nordstrom has three colors:

• Vintage Navy
• Vintage Taupe
• Vintage Olive

So, Readers, what do you think? Do you love the look or do you hate it?

Would you spend $230+ for a pair of J Brand Houlihans? Is it just too much for a pair of pants that are weekend-only? Would you look for a less expensive pair? Or are you going to forgo the cargo look?

Thirsty Thursday

Strawberry Ice

Looking for a delicious cocktail to unwind with over a fabulous summer weekend? Try a Strawberry Ice.

Ingredients:

• 1 1/2 Ounces of Strawberry Vodka
  
• 1 1/2 Ounces of Strawberry Schnapps
  
• 1 1/2 Ounces of Cranberry Juice
  

Combine the ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake. Strain into a cocktail glass. Garnish with a strawberry.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Loves It, Hates It

Posted by: L

Hot Pink & Turquoise

Loves it!

{Cameron Diaz @ the 2007 Metropolitan Museum of Art Costume Gala -

magenta Christian Dior strapless gown paired with turquoise jewelry}

{Kate Moss at the 2008 Matthew Williamson fashion show -

turquoise cardi and hot pink and turquoise dress, faboosh headpiece}

{First Lady Michelle Obama at the 2009 White House Correspondence Dinner -

hot pink Michael Kors dress}

{Lilly Pulitzer Large Agenda
- Checking In Print}

What do you think? Hot pink and turquoise-- do you love it or do you hate it?

Frugal is the New Black

Posted by: L

For a limited time, the members-only private sale site Rue La La is offering new members $10.00 if you sign up between now and August 8, 2010.

Personally, this is one of my favorite shopping sites! They offer current merchandise at a fraction of the cost. (So, think: you know that high you get when you find, say, a Michael Kors $400+ bag marked waaay down at TJs? Yea. It's like that. Only better.)

Some recent two-day boutiques have included:

• Havaianas
• MICHAEL Michael Kors
• Tracey Reese
• Cole Haan
• BCBG
• Theory
• Kate Spade - Home
• Lilly Pulitzer - Home

And, soo many more!!

There's usually 3-5 boutiques a day, open for two days. And, for those of you with a bigger wallet, Rue La La has recently started offering discounted vacations from Beaches Resorts and other posh hotels and spas!

What are you waiting for? Sign up here!

Good Luck!

Good Luck

to all the Bar Exam takers this week!!

(You can all look forward to a Barbri book bonfire after it's done! heh heh)

Water Cooler

Posted by: L

Long before law school, when I was just a Little L (in size, not height, because that hasn't changed since the 7th grade, haha) I loved tuning into courtroom dramas, especially "Law and Order." Then came "Boston Legal," with lovable (albeit neurotic) characters like Denny Crane and Alan Shore, that made me tune in religiously.

Now, in law school, the realization has sunk that things likely won't be as interesting and quick-to-trial as they were at 500 Boylston Street (and since I don't have a penchant for going into criminal prosecution, cases will not be as gory as they were in downtown Manhattan, phew). And, although fiction, I still look for the roof deck where Denny and Alan would share after-hours cocktails and cigars when I walk by.

(I'm not even going to go into the "Legally Blonde" series, because although Elle Woods who is highly "lovable," with her hot pink accessories and sassy wit and banter, no 1L would ever be called upon to represent a client and her vast hair care knowledge would not win her a murder trial. All lies, Elle!)

Well, for those of us who have a favorite ficticious lawyer, check out the ABA's list of "25 Greatest Fictional Lawyers" and see if yours made the list! Perry Mason, anyone?

One gal I'd like to see on here: Jane Bingum from Lifetime's "Drop Dead Diva."

Maybe next year. That's one show that if you're not watching, you're missing out! Don't get turned off because it is a Lifetime show, either. (I'm not a fan of the usual my-husband/boyfriend/fiance-absued-me, now-I'm-getting-revenge fare that is usually home to the network.) Read more about "Drop Dead Diva" here.

Frugal is the New Black

Posted by: L

Love Amazon.com? Have a .edu e-mail address?

Head over to: http://www.amazon.com/gp/student/signup/info and sign up for Amazon Prime for one year -- absolutely free!

What you get:

• Amazon Prime free for one year ($79 value^1.);
• Unlimited FREE Two-Day Shipping;
• No minimum order size (this is key!);
• Upgrades to One-Day shipping for $3.99/item; and
• E-mail alerts for exclusive deals and promotions!

All you have to do is sign up by providing your .edu e-mail address, your school, and your major.

I just signed up and ordered this:

...and it will arrive on my doorstep on Monday -- just in time to read Wednesday after my final!

Are you going to sign up??

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1. Just remember to make a note in your calendar to cancel next July so you don't get charged!

Frugal is the New Black

Posted by: L

It usually starts in June and takes you all the way through Labor Day. The smiles, the toasts, the congratulations.

Then, of course we have: the dresses, the shoes, the accessories. The hotel stays, the cash bars, the gifts.

What is L going on about? WEDDING SEASON!

You know, that great time of year that usually takes up the majority of your summer weekends if you're between the ages of 25-32. And, it just so happens to empty out your wallet.

Regardless of your role at a wedding (guest, in the wedding party), every one has one thing in common: giving a gift to the happy couple.

By now some of you, dear Readers, are probably seasoned veterans, scouring out sales and getting creative to make and deliver something personal to your dear friends and family members. But, for those of you just starting out (and even for the Readers that might need a little refresh-er), the girls at Ring Drunk^{1., 2.} have put together a step-by-step guide for gift giving that is both budget-friendly and creative!

One of their awesome tips that would be perfect for a guest who is just recently out of school include:

"Step 4: Get Creative
Make a cookbook. We all have some standard recipes that we make all the time and love. Add those to a few of your mom or grandma's classics or maybe one or two you adapted from a cooking idol, and make your own cookbook."

The girls then provide you with both crafty and tech-savvy ways to complete the gift!

If you follow Ring Drunk's guide and add your own twist, you'll be sure to give something that the couple will cherish (and you won't look like you picked out the least-expensive item on their Registry!).

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1. Adj. \'riŋ ˈdrəŋk\. The state of jubilation after a wedding proposal. Must follow an accepted wedding proposal. Engagement ring, or other jewelry, not required, but socially expected.
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Thirsty Thursday

Bad News Bear

Everyone has one of those days or weeks when nothing seems to go right. If you are having a bad day or a bad week try a Bad News Bear to put a smile on your pretty face.

Ingredients:

• 1 Ounce of Jagermeister Herbal Liqueur
• 1 Ounce of Vodka
• 4-6 Ounces of Mountain Dew Pitch Black Soda
  
• 2 Ounces of Fruit Punch
  

Combine all ingredients. Stir. Serve in a glass.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Thirsty Thursday

Frozen Passion Margarita

Whenever you want to indulge in a tasty treat try this margarita.

Ingredients:

• 3/4 Ounce of Alize Gold Passion Liqueur
  
• 3/4 Ounce of 18000 Tequila
  
• 3/4 Ounce of Triple Sec
• 1 Ounce of Fresh Lime Juice
  
• 1 1/2 Ounces of Simple Syrup
  
• 3/4 Cup of Cracked Ice

Combine all the ingredients in a blender. Blend. Strain into a margarita glass. Don't forget to rim the glass with coarse salt. Garnish with a wheel of lime.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Happy 4th of July

We hope everyone has a great 4th of July.

Thank you to everyone who has served or our serving now for our country.

Happy Birthday America!!

xoxo
B & L

Thirsty Thursday

4th of July

Independence Day is this Sunday which means a weekend of drinking and partying.

So take a 4th of July shot in celebration of America's Independence!

Ingredients:

• 1/2 Ounce of Grenadine Syrup
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Vodka
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Blue Curacao Liqueur.
  

Slowly pour each ingredient into a shot glass in the order provided so that they are layered on top of each other. Next, take that shot!!!

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Water Cooler

Prettier on Monday?

Posted by: L

I found this neat tid-bit from our upstairs neighbor and wanted to share:

Pretty on Monday, Pretty Grim by Friday
76 minutes average British women spend on grooming to get ready for work on Mondays.
19 minutes average British women spend on grooming to get ready for work on Fridays.

Women spend four times as long making sure they look sharp for work at the beginning of the week than they do by the end, according to a survey of 1000 customers of British retail chain Debenhams. Men also let their attention to appearance slide as they week wears on, but over all spend much less time sprucing themselves up, from 28 minutes on Mondays to 11 minutes by Wednesday.

{Globe & Mail, Life Section, June 8, 2010}

Right now, I'm loafing around (11:30, Sunday night), thinking: I really need Mondays off, too, and Fridays. Even though I took four naps slept the weekend away really relaxed this weekend, work has a funny way of sneaking up on you, just when you're settling in, getting used to being with the people that mean the most to you and doing things that make you happy (instead of, you know, staring blankly at Excel for eight hours, running to meetings, and returning e-mails and phone calls). (Insert Snooki "Waaa" here.)

Even though the stats reported are from another country, I don't think there's much difference over here than there?

I do know that I shall not be spending the 76 minutes getting ready for tomorrow, though. Maybe 30, or 40 if you include one hit of the snooze button of the alarm, broken down as follows:

• 20 minutes: slide out of bed, shower, dry off, comb hair, if needed (tomorrow isn't a "wash hair" day!), lotions, hair product routine;
• 10 minutes: put on clothes, quick make-up routine (thanks to not having client meetings any more, the routine can be quick: bronzer, blush, mascara);
• 5 minutes: search for food, wonder why the choices are few and far between, vow to make lunches the night before, grab juice, fruit, fruit crisps, change of shoes;
• 5-10 minutes: grumbling, cursing and wondering why there is not a single Starbucks in the town I work in or on the way to work. (Addition? Yes.)
• Run out the door.

And the epilogue? Spend the next 1.5-2.5 hours in traffic; text girlfriends; sneak into desk.

How about you, Readers: how much time will you spend getting ready for work in the morning? Does your routine slide as the week ends? Chime in!

Thirsty Thursday

American Glory

Yesterday, US beat Algeria allowing them to advance to the next round in the World Cup.

To celebrate, get a little patriotic with an American Glory.

Ingredients:

• 3 Ounces of Champagne
  
• 3 Ounces of Orange Juice
• 2 Ounces of Lemonade

Combine all the ingredients into a frosted ice-filled highball glass.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Happy Dad's Day!

"Any man can be a father, but it takes a special person to be a dad"

Happy Father's Day especially to those two very special dads - B & L's dads!

Thirsty Thursday

Mojito

A mojito seems to scream summertime and since it is almost officially summer we better start drinking mojitos!

Ingredients:

• 1 1/4 Ounces of Captain Morgan Original Spiced Rum
  
• 12 Mint Leaves
  
• 1 Tablespoon of Sugar
• 1/2 Ounce of Lime Juice
  
• 2 Ounces of Soda Water

Put the mint leaves on the bottom of the glass. Next add crushed ice, Captain Morgan, sugar, and lime juice. Muddle. Finally add the soda water and garnish with mint leaves.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Loves It, Hates It

Posted By: B

People wearing clothes that don't fit them: Hates It!

I don't understand why people feel the need to wear clothes that are one, two, etc. sizes too small.

Do these people not have mirrors?

Seriously, they need to take a couple seconds out of their day and look in the mirror. If skin is poking out, you have massive camel toe after using a pair of pillars to zip your jeans, etc. you need another size.

You could be the prettiest person in the world but if the clothes don't fit then people remember your outfit and how bad it looked on you, not how pretty you are. Moreover, if the fit isn't right it can make the person look heavier.

People wearing clothes that do NOT fit seems to be a widespread problem, what has to be done to get these people to stop?

Thirsty Thursday

Kiss Me Slow

Have you ever had a moment when all you wanted was the guy to take his time and never stop?

Well if so, raise your glass to Kiss Me Slow.

Ingredients:

• 4 Ounces of White Rum
  
• 2 Ounces of Triple Sec
• 1 Ounce of Lemon Juice

Add the ingredients together in an old-fashioned glass and stir.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com

Thirsty Thursday

Wedding Belle

One of B's best friends, J, is getting married this weekend to an amazing guy, JB!!

It's only fitting that we honor this soon-to-be Southern Belle (they'll be living in Georgia soon!) with this wedding themed drink for her very special day.

Ingredients:

• 3/4 Ounce of Gin
  
• 3/4 Ounce of Dubonnet Rouge
• 1/2 Ounce of Cherry Brandy
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Orange Juice

Pour the Gin, Dubonnet Rouge, Cherry Brandy, and Orange Juice into a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake and strain into a chilled cocktail glass.

Enjoy.

Congratulations J & JB!!!!!

Recipe from cocktails.about.com.

How To...

Transition Your Sorority Kit to Your Adult Kit
Posted by: B

Ladies there comes a time when your sexy, black, lace, barely there panties should be worn at home for your man, not at work or in the classroom.

Don't worry, I am not advocating granny panties (cringe), but rather more age appropriate, working adult panties. Instead of black lace think cotton. Instead of sexy think cute.

Below is an example of what you want to save for your man.

Courtesy of Frederick's of Hollywood

It's sexy and is sure to drive him wild.

Here is an example of your adult kit.

Courtesy of Frederick's of Hollywood

It's a cotton thong with a little bit lace. It's more conservative but has a little bit naughty.

As a general rule your adult kit should be worn to work, work events, school, and family functions.

As with every rule there are exceptions. Here are a few:

• You're meeting up with your guy on your lunch break for a quickie.
• You're going to have a long day at work and want to spice it up with a naughty secret.
• After class you're meeting up with that cutie you've been eying for drinks.

Now you have another reason to go shopping! Happy Transitioning!!

Happy Memorial Day!!

We hope you are enjoying this beautiful Memorial Day!

While we are enjoying the holiday, let's not forget those who died serving our county.

xoxo
B & L

Water Cooler

Posted by: B

I had to make a phone call at work. I knew the number so there was no need to double check.

I dialed, assuming I knew where the numbers were located on the phone, I did not pay attention to the numbers I pressed.

After a couple of rings, I heard a recording about...

SEX!!

Ummm...what?!

I accidentally called a sex hotline!!

I got so freaked out - I was at work! - I hung up immediately, started to blush (obvs - it's not that hard to make me blush) and started to laugh hysterically.

Everyone was looking at me (obnoxious laughter in a quiet office tends to create a scene), so I did what every good employee does and told my co-workers about my embarrassing phone call.

Luckily when my manager and boss found out about this little snafu they made fun of me.

Thirsty Thursday

Cosmopolitan Cocktail

Sex in the City 2 is out in theaters today!

So in honor of Sex in the City, enjoy a Cosmo and then check out the flick!

Ingredients:

• 1 Ounce of Vodka
• 1/2 Ounce of Triple Sec
• 1/2 Ounce of Lime Juice
• 1/2 Ounce of Cranberry Juice

Add the vodka, triple sec, lime, and cranberry juice into a shaker with ice. Shake. Strain into a martini glass. Garnish with a lime wedge on the rim.

Enjoy.

Recipe from: drinksmixer.com.

Thirsty Thursday

Mountain Breeze

Now you can enjoy a quick mountain escape after work or during a night out on the town.

Ingredients:

• 1/2 Ounce of Vodka
• 1/2 Ounce of Gin
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Triple Sec
• 1 Ounce of Cranberry Juice
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Rum
• 1/2 Ounce of Tequila (1800® Tequila Recommended)
• 1 and 1/2 Ounces of Sweet and Sour Mix
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Grapefruit Juice

Combine all the ingredients into a shaker. Shake. Pour into a hurricane glass with ice. Garnish with a lime wedge.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Thirsty Thursday

Strawberry Daiquiri

B & L are beyond excited for summer!

So to celebrate check out this treat that screams summertime.

Ingredients:

• 1/2 Ounce of Strawberry Schnapps
  
• 1 Ounce of Light Rum
  
• 1 Ounce of Lime Juice
• 1 Teaspoon of Powdered Sugar
  
• 1 Ounce of Strawberries

Add the ingredients in a blender with ice. Blend. Strain into a cocktail glass. Garnish with a strawberry.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Happy Mother's Day!

To all the moms (especially ours!),

Happy Mother's Day!

{Image Credit: We HEART it}

xoxo,

B & L

Thirsty Thursday

Lucky-tini

Finals are here so if you need a break from studying try a Lucky-tini.

If you don't have finals to worry about, you can still check out this tasty treat and maybe you'll get lucky.

Ingredients:

• 2 Ounces of Three Olives Grape Vodka
  
• 1 Ounce of Melon Liqueur
  
• 1 Splash of Pineapple Juice

Pour the ingredients into a shaker with ice. Shake. Strain into a martini glass. Garnish with an orange slice.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Keep Studying, Pretties!

Just about one more week for us aspiring legalistas, and then some papers : )

Finals Week

Posted by: L

Here's some inspiration for all fellow aspiring legalistas, as we approach finals.

{Photo credit: I found this gem saved on my MacBook..so, "thank you"anonymous!}

Thirsty Tuesday

Florida Orgasm

In honor of LD, the drink recipe for this week came a little early.

Ingredients:

• 3 Ounces of Malibu Coconut Rum
  
• 3 Ounces of Grapefruit Juice
  

Combine ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake. Strain into a glass.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Dating101

Posted by: B & L

Just Say No.

Don't want to give your number out? Just Say No.

Don't want to talk/text/sext on the phone? Just Say No.

Don't want someone to visit you? Just Say No.

Don't want it rough tonight (because you can't sport battle wounds to the Conference Room tomorrow/you're still healing from the last time)? Just Say No.

Don't want to give/receive road head because it's noon, the sun is out and you took the doors and roof off your Wrangler? Just Say No.

We think you get the point.

Saying "no"-- such an easy phrase, yet so many people have problems with saying it, or just being honest and telling the other person that he/she just isn't interested.

It's natural that some people aren't going to be attracted to you and vice versa. So what's the big deal of just saying no?

Take a tip from us: there's a lot less hassle, hurt feelings, and drama when you are upfront with the person.

So if you aren't feeling him/her, just say no!

Frugal is the New Black

Posted by: L

Uhm, drool.

Enter in FRIENDLY30 and receive 30% off your purchase at KateSpade.com or Promo Code JSPADEFF at JackSpade.com -- including sale items! (Click the image for a larger view.)

And, as usual, enjoy FREE GROUND SHIPPING!

... I might have to pick me up a pair of these little guys!

Dear Readers

With finals right around the corner, you will see fewer posts. (We know we've been sparse lately! But, no, we haven't been just chillaxin' on the couch. It's called Law.School. and it dominates your life the last four weeks of the semester.)

If you are wondering how you are going to get your drink on - don't worry we will still have our weekly drink recipes!

After finals, we will be back in action providing you with our best... in between laying on the beach by day and drinking cocktails by night.

Don't forget to check back regularly to be apart of this E.P.I.C. summer.

xoxo
B & L

Thirsty Thursday

Sex on the Beach

An oldie but a goodie.

Ingredients:

• 1 1/2 Ounces of Vodka
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Peach Schnapps
  
• 2 Ounces of Cranberry Juice
  
• 2 Ounces of Orange Juice

Pour the vodka and peach schnapps into a highball glass - don't forget the ice. Next, add the cranberry juice and orange juice in equal amounts. Stir.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Thirsty Thursday

Midnight Kiss

A midnight kiss can stir many feelings. It can make you feel desired, sexy, and so much more.

But if it was to say good night, order a Midnight Kiss so you can enjoy the rest of your time out.

Ingredients:

• 3/4 Ounce of Vodka
  
• 5 to 6 Ounces of Champagne
  
• 1/4 Ounce of Blue Curacao Liqueur
  

Pour the Vodka into a champagne flute (sugar-rimmed). Next, pour the champagne. Finally add the curacao.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Don't wet your undies...

...but there is a new trailor for Sex & the City 2! In theaters May 28, 2010!

Posted by: L

Best line: "We made a deal ages ago: men, babies, it doesn't matter: we're soulmates."

And, SQUEAL for Aiden coming back!!!!

Thirsty Thursday

Paradise in April

The weather in Massachusetts has been gorgeous this past week.

To celebrate this beautiful weather try a Paradise in April, after all this is New England so you never know when the weather will change.

Ingredients:

• 2 to 3 Ounces of Coconut Rum
  
• 3 Ounces of Pineapple Juice
  
• 3 Ounces of Hawaiian Punch
  

Mix the ingredients together. Pour into a glass with ice.

Enjoy.

Recipe from www.drinksmixer.com.

What was I thinking?

Posted by: B

Setting: I'm leaving the parking garage after my late night of classes.

I pulled up to the exit and stopped at the gate to pay and leave, but on that night I thought all I had to do was press the red button, take a ticket, and drive away after the gate opened.

So I sat there, at the gate, pressing the red button and waiting for the ticket.

After pressing the button 5 times I thought there might be a problem with the gate.

So I stared at the "call for assistance" button trying to decide if I should press it. After 30 seconds had passed, I decided not to "call for assistance" and went back to pressing the red button for a ticket.

Shortly, I realized the red button said "cancel" as in cancel the payment transaction.

This realization confused me so I thought about it out loud.

"What? Why would I cancel getting my ticket and leaving?"

Clarity...

"Ohhhh. This is the exit. I have to pay. Hahaha"

Luckily no one was behind me!

Thirsty Thursday

Between the Sheets

Need we say more?

Ingredients:

• 1 Ounce Brandy
  
• 1/2 Ounce Light Rum
  
• 1/2 Ounce Triple Sec
  
• Sweet and Sour Mix

Combine the brandy, rum, and triple sec into a glass with ice. Add the sweet and sour mix.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Loves It, Hates It

Posted by: B

Ke$ha talking shit about Miz Britney Spears: Hates It!

So, I was recently on Perez where I learned that Ke$ha disses Brit Brit in one of her new songs!

In the song "Styrofoam," K says:

"In 10 years, Britney Spears...Britney, who?"

Really, Ke$ha? Didn't you "break onto the scene" in Flo Rida's "Right Round" (February 2009)? Even then no one knew who the hell you were and didn't even care about you.

It wasn't until you came out with "Tik Tok" (August 2009) that people finally took notice of the killer sound you can produce.

Britney has been on the scene since 1992 when she appeared on Star Search only to join Disney's Mickey Mouse Club in 1993 and later hit it BIG with "...Baby One More Time" in 1999. Not to mention, Britney has sold 83 MILLION albums, won a Grammy for "Toxic" (Best Dance Recording), and had one of the top grossing tours in 2009. Oh, and let's not forget that she has been on the Forbes "Most Powerful Celebrity List."

I could continue, but then this would become another post about the sheer amazing-ness of Brit Brit.

Do you really think Britney won't be relevant in ten years? She was dubbed the Princess of Pop!! Even if she doesn't come out with any new songs, she will always be known as "Britney Spears, Princess of Pop."

The question now becomes, "Will you, Ke$ha, be relevant in 10 years?"

Don't get me wrong. I'm one that constantly rocks out to Ke$ha in the car, working out, and well, basically whenever I'm bored.

But, whatever happened to respect? The newbies on the scene need to respect those who have been in the game for over a decade.

Thirsty Thursday

Panty Remover

Looking for a good time? Why not buy a Panty Remover for that cutie sitting next to you?

Ingredients:

• 2 Ounces of Dry Gin
  
• 1 Ounce of Vodka
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Fresca Grapefruit Soda
  
• 1 Dash Lemon Juice

Combine all the ingredients and stir. Pour into the cocktail glass.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Frugal is the New Black

Posted by: L

Hi Readers!

I have 23 invitations left for the Banana Republic, Gap, and Old Navy "Give and Get Program."

What is it: Enjoy 30% off at the above retailers! You can use the bar code provided on the invitations as many times as you'd like. (It's also applicable at the Banana Republic Factory Store and Gap Outlet.) And, as a bonus, 5% of your total purchase will be donated to one of five charities. I picked the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society.

Valid through: Sunday, March 21, 2010.

What you need to do: E-mail counselconfidential@gmail.com to request your invitation. The first 23 will get one!

Happy spending!

Thirsty Thursday

Strawberry Ice

The warmer weather is coming. Spring is right around the corner. Why not celebrate with a Strawberry Ice?

Ingredients:

• 1 1/2 Ounces of Strawberry Vodka
  
• 1 1/2 Ounces of Strawberry Schnapps
  
• 1 1/2 Ounces of Cranberry Juice
  

Combine all ingredients into a shaker. Don't forget the ice. Shake. Strain into a chill cocktail glass. Garnish with a strawberry.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

What was I thinking?

Posted by: B

Setting: I am having a conversation with my Aunt N about her wedding.

Me: Have you thought about where you wanted to get married?

Aunt N: Yeah we were thinking maybe Vegas.

Me: That would be fun!

Aunt N: Yeah and it's easier because all you need is your prior divorce date.

Me: (Divorce date? What?) Oh. I don't get it. You need to know your divorce date?

Aunt N: Yeah. Prior divorce date from the previous marriage.

Me: Ohhhh. That makes more sense.

Aunt N: Makes more sense? What did you think I was talking about?

Me: I thought you meant your future divorce date. You know, you go into a chapel and tell the person "I would like to get married today, divorced in 5 years, maybe in April".

Aunt N: NO!

Me: Well that's good. I was getting worried because I don't think that is the mentality you should have when marrying someone.

Thirsty Thursday

Fireworks

Some days you have the chance to see the sky light up with fireworks.

Other days you have a crazy life experience that makes you feel like you just watched fireworks for hours.

Now you can experience fireworks any day of the week.

Ingredients:

• 4 Ounces of Champagne
  
• 1/3 Ounce of Gin
  
• 1/2 Ounce of Tangerine Schnapps
  

Directions:

Pour all the ingredients into a champagne flute. Garnish with a twist of orange.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Thirsty Thursday

Leave It to Me

Did you ever have one of those days where everything goes wrong? You're such a mess all you can say is "leave it to me". Escape from your crazy day while poking fun at yourself with Leave It to Me.

Ingredients:

• 1 1/2 Ounce Gin
  
• 1 Teaspoon Raspberry Syrup
• 1 Teaspoon Lemon Juice
• 1/4 Teaspoon Maraschino Liqueur

Combine the ingredients with ice and stir. Strain into a cocktail glass.

Enjoy.

Recipe from drinksmixer.com.

Thirsty Thursday

Strawberry Champagne Cocktail

Strawberries and Champagne? Could this cocktail get any better?

Go ahead, take a sip.

Ingredients:

• 3/4 Shot Strawberry Brandy
  
• 3/4 Shot Vodka
  
• Champagne
  

First, add the strawberry brandy and vodka in a champagne flute. Next, add the champagne. Garnish with a strawberry.

Please note: It is difficult to find strawberry brandy but you can use the strawberry mix for strawberry daiquiri as a substitute.

Enjoy.

Recipe from wineintro.com.

BOSTON UNCOMMON

Posted by: B & L

Spotted: No, that's not Lady Gaga, Readers. It's none other than....a real life hooker only steps away from Boston Common! She was on her celli, gabbing about "avoiding the 5-Oh," probably to her pimp.

Both B and L giggled all the way across the street, thankful that they didn't get caught, because she could have easily taken them both!!

...Brings back L's memories of elementary school conveniently located on Piedmont and Murray Ave. in "South Worcester."

Dating101

Posted by: B

Don't end any type of relationship during working hours, especially via Facebook.

First, work should be a time where a person can concentrate on work, not on his or her love life. To end a relationship, even something as small as a constant hook up, during working hours is selfish. You don't know how that person will react. You don't know how long the person has to stay at the office. You don't know how that message will affect his or her work. I think you get point.

If you don't know when the person is working, I would stick with the customary working hours, which are Monday through Friday, 8:00 am to 6:00 pm. However, if you know the person works different hours than listed, follow his or her working schedule.

Seriously, what's the big deal in waiting a few hours before ending it? The person is at work...it's not like you two are on a date or going to make out while he or she is working.

Second, Facebook is not the venue to end any sort of relationship. I don't even care if you don't want to workout anymore with one of your buddies anymore, you want to switch to a new gym, or you don't want to go out on a second date - not the way to end it.

Via text is bad enough, but to do it via Facebook is a whole new low.

Man up and at least tell the person over a phone call. (And, ok, even a text or series of texts would be better than Facebook!)

Honestly, what is so important that you need to end it instantly via Facebook? Is that instant gratification really that important?

Sorry, didn't realize changing your relationship status on Facebook was so important.

If changing the relationship status on Facebook is that important that you have to send a Facebook message to end something in order to instantly change your status to "in a relationship" then you shouldn't have been trying to get with anyone else in the first place.

Snaps!

Posted by: B & L

What an exciting week for us!

Snaps to B for her raise! *snaps!*

Snaps to L for her promotion! *snaps!*

Snaps to the Legacy Fam for being classy and fabulous! *snaps!*

And, snaps to you, Readers, for bringing our fan base to over 100 on Facebook! *snaps!*

It might be time for a giveaway...stay tuned!