Believe it or not, some men actually tests the girls they are interested in before pursuing a relationship.
So, if you're single and are interested in a particular guy who seems to be feeling you, be on the lookout for the following tests:
- Mentioning an Ex;
- Coming Home Drunk;
- Suggesting Kinky Sex; and
- Planning a No-Frills Adventure.
It might be hard, but show him you're confident (even if you are faking it, which is just as tough) and you are not going to be bothered by her-- you have no extreme jealousy going on. And, most importantly, remember that she is an ex, probably for good reasons!
Some guys are really attached to their independence and may think going from the "single life" to the "relationship life" may mean giving up that independence they hold so dear. So, if the man you are interested in shows up drunk on your doorsteps after a night out with the guys, take care of him. Show him that being in a relationship doesn't mean he can't let loose and enjoy a night out with the boys.
We all know sex plays a very important role in relationships (or are you playing a role while you have sex? heh heh). If a guy mentions trying something kinky in the bedroom, he is trying to see if you are down for some experimentation. Some guys are nervous that the sex will plateau once they are in the relationship, so by bringing up this topic and/or buying you a little sexy number that is sure to turn him on, a guy is trying to see if you will be willing to try new things and explore a little in the bedroom. (Watch out for the S-Curve!)
The guy you are interested in may want to know if you can have fun regardless of the location or situation you are in. So, by either suggesting a "no frills" adventure, or somehow stumbling into one, he will be on the lookout for how you handle yourself. Can you go with the flow? If you are in awkward position, don't worry-- try to have a good time with your Mr. Right Now.
B & L do not recommend changing who you are as a person, but to just be on the lookout for little tests you guy may throw at you before committing himself to you.
Some guys are really attached to their independence and may think going from the "single life" to the "relationship life" may mean giving up that independence they hold so dear. So, if the man you are interested in shows up drunk on your doorsteps after a night out with the guys, take care of him. Show him that being in a relationship doesn't mean he can't let loose and enjoy a night out with the boys.
We all know sex plays a very important role in relationships (or are you playing a role while you have sex? heh heh). If a guy mentions trying something kinky in the bedroom, he is trying to see if you are down for some experimentation. Some guys are nervous that the sex will plateau once they are in the relationship, so by bringing up this topic and/or buying you a little sexy number that is sure to turn him on, a guy is trying to see if you will be willing to try new things and explore a little in the bedroom. (Watch out for the S-Curve!)
The guy you are interested in may want to know if you can have fun regardless of the location or situation you are in. So, by either suggesting a "no frills" adventure, or somehow stumbling into one, he will be on the lookout for how you handle yourself. Can you go with the flow? If you are in awkward position, don't worry-- try to have a good time with your Mr. Right Now.
B & L do not recommend changing who you are as a person, but to just be on the lookout for little tests you guy may throw at you before committing himself to you.
Most importantly, be yourself, have fun, and open yourself up to a guy you are interested in!
Information adapted from Cosmopolitan.com, and of course, stylized by B & L!
Information adapted from Cosmopolitan.com, and of course, stylized by B & L!
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