Dating101

Ever wonder if that certain guy or girl will actually call you?

Did you ever walk away from a night with someone thinking: "He/She seemed like he/she was having fun. Wonder if I'll ever see them again?"

B & L completely understand those feelings. Our advice, to both the guys and girls: be honest.

If you aren't going to call, tell the person it was fun and thank them for a good time. Don't tell him/her you will call. Don't lead him/her to believe you will be in touch when you know full well that you won't be.

Now you may be thinking: "but what if he/she asks if you are going to call?"

Answer: Be Honest.

Honesty does not have to be "mean."

If you aren't going to call and the other persons asks, simply tell him/her that you had a fun time, but you just want it to be a one time thing.

Will it suck hearing that? Yes. It will be one hell of a zing-dinger to that person.

However, after some time that person will be grateful he/she did not waste any extra time on you.

Warning: Being honest does not mean after the first or second date telling the person you like them "like, woah!" and want to have have an exclusive and serious relationship, move in together and get married. Exaggeration - yes - but you get the picture. Spilling all your feelings that soon is a big DON'T.

But, you can be honest about your intentions. If you want another date say so. If you don't, leave it how it was - fun - but don't say you'll do things when you have no intentions of following through.